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Jela · Oct 26, 2009, 11:38 PM

Hi Everyone,

Im new on this site, I really need help I'm with my boyfriend for almost 4 years... he keep on promising me about marriage, wer staying at the same roof, but I since that he had someone else. Today he sms me that he have a company dinner, just a curiosity I called his office but the clerk said there's no company dinner. Every time he go out I'm so doubtful on him but I don't I have a proof:

My question is... 1) does he have other woman? 2) why he still with me if let see he have other woman outside? 3) He don't want me to touch his mobile what's the reason? He said it is a personal things belongs to him.. and he don't want to touch my mobile iether 4) Is there a way that I can track his mobile?? Or something that maybe can help me to find out.

. I need an answer.

Tnx... Jela

amicon · Oct 27, 2009, 03:41 AM

What you KNOW is that he lied about the company dinner. In my book anyone who lies once probably lies about a lot of things. Forget about the phone ask him why he lied to you.
And if you can't trust him the relationship s not working.

I wish · Oct 27, 2009, 05:11 AM

1) The fact that you're willing to call his clerk to confirm his statement means that you have very little trust in him already = trust is shacky

2) You even confirmed that he lied = trust is breaking

3) If you're willing to track his calls, it means you've already lost trust in him = trust is broken

No trust = No relationship

I suggest you confront him about his lie. If he doesn't provide a satisfactory answer, then you can pretty much dump him. There's no need to track his calls.

Romefalls19 · Oct 27, 2009, 05:42 AM

Ask him why he lied about the dinner, and go from there

Ren6 · Oct 27, 2009, 05:48 AM

You can ask him about the dinner and his cell phone, but you already know he lies. He'll only lie some more. Sounds like he's hiding something from you, and that something is probably another woman.

Devorameira · Oct 27, 2009, 09:57 AM

Sounds sneaky and suspicious to me. Some cell phone companies will provide you with a list of calls made and received if you are the primary account holder or have access. I'd start there. If you can get a hold of some numbers then go on the internet and do a reverse phone number to find the owner of the number. Good luck!