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johvanna · Sep 22, 2009, 12:08 PM

Well about a yr ago I fell in love with a guy I thought was the one then he turned out to be a jerk... I still miss & think about him but I know I got to get over him also because he ignores me when I text or message him through myspace which is making me look like desperate, rite?
The other thing is that I started talking 2 this guy I like a lot named justin but we stopped talking for a while because he started going out with sum girl & I started talking 2 sum other guy named joel but I like joel & he likes me but he saids he isn't ready for a relationship yet also because he's never had one... does that mean he don't want 2 have a relationship with me or he really isn't ready?
Another thing is that I'm starting 2 talk bk 2 justin & he told me he loves me but things happen you know... & I have strong feeling towards him but because of our distance it really isn't possible for us 2 go out since he lives in san antonio & I live in mcallen tx. So I'm starting 2 get like confused because I don't want to seem like a player because I talking 2 2 guys at the same time even though I'm single. Ne advice?

I wish · Sep 22, 2009, 12:22 PM

Seeing that you're in grade 9, this question is more appropriate in the Teen section. Please use proper English and not chat speak.

Just be friends with them and get to know them better. You don't need to commit to a relationship.

earthmama · Sep 22, 2009, 12:23 PM

Hello Johvanna. I do not think that you're being a "player"! You're young and deserve to meet many people.You are single.You may meet 100's of men before you meet Mr.right. From the way ,you speak in your question,it sounds like you'll make a good- hearted and loyal girl friend (wife),someday.Do not limit yourself because of guilt. You are single and young. You've got no reason to feel guilty for just talking to many different people.Have fun and enjoy your youth. Believe me,it doesn't last! Good-luck to you,dear.

johvanna · Sep 22, 2009, 12:29 PM

Originally Posted by earthmama

Hello Johvanna. I do not think that you're being a "player"! You're young and deserve to meet many people.You are single.You may meet 100's of men before you meet Mr.right. From the way ,you speak in your question,it sounds like you'll make a good- hearted and loyal girl friend (wife),someday.Do not limit yourself because of guilt. you are single and young. You've got no reason to feel guilty for just talking to many different people.Have fun and enjoy your youth. Believe me,it doesn't last! good-luck to you,dear.

Well thank you. I appreciate it:)