[askmehelpdesk15]

Well its goes like this

Me and my best friend. We go waaay back

Since prep school. We've been friends. And he has turned out to be a very very good looking guy. So me, only being human. Fell for him.

I am a guy FYI.

In such a way. In a bad way. An obsession like way.
And in class.(we're 8th grade now and in the same class for the next 2 years)
I have this sense that he likes me too.

He is really good looking and the fact is. He hasn't had a girlfriend yet or any relationship.

Basically we are the most talked about best friends in the entire classroom

But some people tell me. Who are his other friends. That he hates gay people.

And recently I have been asking my other friends. If they think I'm gay with all my gay language but not actions

Cause I think gay humor is the best humor
So I joke about it.not anti gay. Pro gay

And suddenly. He goes all cold shoulder on me
Snubbing me and stuff like that

Its absolutely terrible.

I asked my other friends if they thought I'm gay. They said no. they said. Its just your thing to do gay jokes.

I asked my best friend
He thinks I'm gay

I don't know how to react to that.

Is that a good think(meaning he is catching on to something. And that he feels the same way)

Or
(he is snubbing be cause he thinks I'm gay)

He listens to what other people have to say

I mean. I just want my best friend to trust me

And I don't know what to do
Everything feels sooo helpless and hopeless.
Terrible just terrible.

Everything I ask
Borrow a paper, ask him to help me with something, come over to my house, everything!
Its all a no. or get someone else. Or something else.
I don't know what to do anymore.
Someone help me ! Please T_T

[talaniman]

Take the hint, and get a real best friend, because he obviously ain't it. He acts like he wants you to back off him, so do so!