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    #21

    Aug 16, 2009, 02:17 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by mudweiser View Post
    How much do you make a year? Not enough I bet. You have to show that you are able to support your family and on top of that your income has to be 125% or more OVER the poverty level.

    Besides you still are 16, you don't meet the age requirement to be able to sponsor him.

    Sarah
    Im not going to sponsor him, the people he works for said they do whatever to help him.
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    #22

    Aug 16, 2009, 02:18 AM
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    Im not gonna sponsor him, the ppl he works for said they do whatever to help him.

    So he works and lives in the United States ILLEGALLY.

    Sarah
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    Aug 16, 2009, 02:19 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by HelpinHere View Post
    Can you support yourself? NO!
    Could you support yourself AND a husband for three years? Definitely not!
    I wouldn't be alone though, we'd either live with is or mi family.
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    Aug 16, 2009, 02:21 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by mudweiser View Post
    So he works and lives in the United States ILLEGALLY.

    Sarah
    A landscaper. Surprisingly huh.
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    Aug 16, 2009, 02:22 AM

    In order for your marriage (which isn't going to happen) to work for him to be granted citizenship, YOU have to support him, not your family, not his family.

    It will never work, and you don't even realize how naïve you are acting right now.
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    Aug 16, 2009, 02:23 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by HelpinHere View Post
    She can't.
    She's young and naive, and he's manipulating her.

    He made her believe she "loves" him, and now she is probably going to do something stupid because of him. Every part of this "relationship" is bad news, only four of the points you distinguished.
    I won't do anything stupid. That's why I went to the internet for help. And he didn't make me think I love him. Nobody can force me to do anything and honestly I don't think that is the case. But, I could be wrong
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    Aug 16, 2009, 02:24 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by HelpinHere View Post
    In order for your marriage (which isn't going to happen) to work for him to be granted citizenship, YOU have to support him, not yoru family, not his family.

    It will never work, and you don't even realize how naive you are acting right now.
    I can wait two years anyway, but how do you figure?
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    Aug 16, 2009, 02:25 AM

    Hon, trust me, I am SURE that YOUR idea of 'stupid' and MY idea of 'stupid' are two entirely different things.
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    #29

    Aug 16, 2009, 02:25 AM

    Well if you want to get married it's up to your parents. Your not able to get legally married without their consent.

    Sarah
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    Aug 16, 2009, 02:26 AM
    And why can't you wait 2 years?
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    #31

    Aug 16, 2009, 02:26 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by jenniepepsi View Post
    you DO realise that he could be charged with kidnapping? ive seen this happen, when a minor moves in with an adult 'for love' the adult is charged with kidnapping and endangering a child. if not contributing to the delinquency of a minor.
    Kidnapping? We don't live alone.
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    Aug 16, 2009, 02:28 AM

    ? What do you mean 'we don't live alone'

    DUH you don't live alone. I need some clarification on what you mean
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    #33

    Aug 16, 2009, 02:29 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by jenniepepsi View Post
    and why can't you wait 2 years??
    Well I never said I couldn't, but someone suggested that we do get married cause they believe how we are living life is a sin.
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    Aug 16, 2009, 02:30 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by jenniepepsi View Post
    ?? what do you mean 'we dont live alone'

    DUH you dont live alone. i need some clarification on what you mean
    He lives with me and mi parents but sometimes I stay at his parents.
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    Aug 16, 2009, 02:31 AM

    living together before marriage being a sin is the LEAST of your worries hon!

    how about deportation?

    statitory rape?
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    #36

    Aug 16, 2009, 02:31 AM
    16yr old female & 22yr old male trying to get married with bad circums.
    So... why do you want to get married now?

    Sounds like everything is working out all hunky dory. You guys get to live together. Mommy still pays your bills and feeds you...

    What's the problem?
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    Aug 16, 2009, 02:36 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by OnlyOnelOve View Post
    well I never said I couldn't, but someone suggested that we do get married cause they believe how we are living life is a sin.
    It is a sin, religiously speaking.

    But rushing to a chapel is no way to fix this. Your 16, and frankly you won't feel the same about him when your 19- you might not even "love" him. It's true. Right now your brain hasn't even finished developing there are parts still being developed that will start working in your early twenties where you'll start to think better and analyze things further-- at 16 your brain is still under construction. I'm not kidding.

    You'll wake up one day and realize how silly this all is. He of course is one sick S.O.B. for being with someone so young.

    As an adult I can see that he is taking advantage of you. Needless to say your still a teen and believe love conquers all.

    Good luck to you really, I hope you don't end up having a child with this man and possibly ruining whatever future you had.

    Sarah
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    #38

    Aug 16, 2009, 02:36 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by jenniepepsi View Post
    living together before marriage being a sin is the LEAST of your worries hon!!

    how about deportation?

    statitory rape?
    Yeah I guess.
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    #39

    Aug 16, 2009, 02:38 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by jenniepepsi View Post
    so...why do you want to get married now?

    sounds like everything is working out all hunky dory. you guys get to live together. mommy still pays your bills and feeds you...

    whats the problem?
    Well true but mi parents don't care I'm with him they just don't want to get in trouble.
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    Aug 16, 2009, 02:39 AM

    You guess...

    And you think you are ready for a marriage...

    *hugs* I hope you get this all sorted out hon... I think your very confused at the moment
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