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    manda1983 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 19, 2006, 01:33 PM
    Men who can't achieve orgasims
    Hello I am a 44 yr old mother of 1 and I need Help. My husband is 52 and our sex life has never been a problem till I got off birth control. My husband and I use condoms as a form of birth control.. Well for the past few months he is not able to achieve an orgasm unless other mouth, and hand tiring actions occur. He blames it on the condoms the band being too tight around the base of his penis.. we have changed brand several times and at first they seem to work well then he grows a tolerance with them Very Quickly! Lambskin's fall off!. I am starting to feel as though it is me and that I do not do it for my husband anymore! The Act of our love is starting to feel more as a chore! I cannot get him to go to the doctor and he says that it is not me but What else could it be! If there is something I could try that might help please let me know I would really appreciate it ~
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    Oct 19, 2006, 01:47 PM
    That is because he is so use to feeling YOU. Even the thinnest condom restricts sensation. That is why he only pops with your hand or mouth.
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    Oct 19, 2006, 03:59 PM
    Is he on any medications that he has started recently?

    He should have a yearly check-up to check his prostate gland.

    This could be a subconscious fear of pregnancy also.
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