[spiritcharms]

Admin, if this is in the wrong place then please move it :) thanks.

Reasons, Seasons & Lifetimes

People come into your life for a "Reason," a "Season" or a Lifetime."
When you know which one it is for a person, you will know what to do for that person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it's usually to meet a need you've expressed.
They've come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a Godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realise is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered... even if you don't realise it... and now it's time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. But believe; it is real! But, it's also only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: Things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you for being a part of my life.

Every person we meet during our lives leaves footprints on our hearts.
May the footprints I leave on your heart be softly tread, not stomped.

~Author Unknown ~

[JoeCanada76]

Yes, this is very true. Thank you for Sharing Spiritcharms. I think it will help with a lot of people. (;

[COCADA]

I wish I could send this to my ex, but today is my 10th day of NC, It might be to soon to do it. Or should I ?

[kctiger]

I wish I could send this to my ex, but today is my 10th day of NC, It might be to soon to do it. or should I ?

No, you shouldn't. Continue on in life as if your ex is dead. Love yourself, enjoy life and let the rest take care of itself.

[COCADA]

No, you shouldn't. Continue on in life as if your ex is dead. Love yourself, enjoy life and let the rest take care of itself.

Thank you KC, I appreciate your advice, I won't send him a thing