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Mom's friend's daughter
Once or twice a year, we would see one of my mom's friend's family. Recently, we've been seeing each other much more often due to exceptional circumstances and it's very possible this trend will keep up.
I had a crush on her for about 3 years, but I'm starting to move on, because I don't want to mess up my mom's friendship. The last time we saw them was a month ago and she ignored me the entire night. I made at least 5 attempts just to say "hi" and she wouldn't have it. We finally said hi to each other 3 hours later. But a week before seeing their family, she replied to my email and she seemed pretty excited to see my family. I can't figure out her sudden change of behavior. I called her a few days after seeing them and asked her what was going on. I can't really remember the conversation in detail, but I remembered 2 things: (1) I told her that I didn't want to make things weird between us, so I asked her why she ignored me, and she said that she thought I was tired; (2) somewhere in the conversation, she said she was confused, but that it was cool between us. So I just said, all right cool then, and hung up. I'm seeing them again this week and I don't care if she likes me or hates me, I just don't want things awkward again with her. I'll definitely try harder at my 5 attempts to say "hi". Any other suggestions? |
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Why not just let it go, if she says hi then she does if not mingle with the rest of the family |
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I Wish things would only be weird or akward if you allow it to. You don't have to say hi 5 times and continue to wait for a response. Say it once! If she doesn't response then "oh well". No more emailing or calling her to find out what you did wrong because you did nothing wrong. |
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Your making this a bigger deal than it need be. Don't, just say hi, and go about your business. |
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Yup, say HI once... and if she doesn't respond... then; Hey, let that be her problem. |
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Also, did it ever occur to you that she is intentionally doing what she does? Some people are attention seekers but I not 100% this is the case but it might be. |
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Update:
Worried for nothing, cause she wasn't even there in the end. Thanks for the advice, I'll keep it in mind for next time. |
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