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TheLuverOfSorro · Jun 19, 2009, 11:47 PM

I'm 15, and live with my mom and her husband along with my half sisters. Her husband which I am forced to call "dad" hasn't adopted me, but he is the biological father of two of my half sisters. I need to know who my real dad is. It's killing me to hear him be so harsh to me but not to them. I don't know anything about him. Him and my mom were a one night thing. I need to know where I come from. I have never met him, I don't even think he knows I exist. But I need him in my life. If anyone can help me find him please say something.

Synnen · Jun 20, 2009, 08:19 AM

You need to talk to your mom about this.

Because you are underage, no one can legally help you search for him.

barret · Nov 9, 2009, 12:29 PM

Hi I am sort of in the same boat I am also 15 I was forced into foster care at the age of three and was put into a loveing caring family my mother was a drug atic and still is and its pissing me off because I don't know my dad I've been searching on the internet for years and I still can't find hime I would really like to at least talk or see him because I can't trust my mom any more its not her it's the drugs talk more ? EMAIL REMOVED

SilviaPhd · Nov 19, 2009, 06:00 AM

Synnen's right.. talk to your mother about it.

FeelSoNumbZombie · Nov 21, 2009, 01:43 PM

Since both of you are not considered an adult a search angel cannot morally or legally help you until you are of legal age. Yes, it is important to speak to your parents about it. But not all adoptive parents are forthcoming with information pertaining to their child when it comes to adoption, unfortunately.
Therefore, please ask for their assistance and understanding first and foremost. And if you hit a road block, like many of us do, you will have to wait until you are of legal age to get assistance from a search angel and or learn to search for yourself.
But there is absolutely no reason why you should not ask your parents to help. You are probably missing important information about yourself. Especially, medically speaking. And if this is something that you are concerned about please approach your parents with those concerns. It is a valid question when it comes to not being able to provide answers to your doctors. Or maybe, just looking at a picture in a magazine and seeing a man or woman that looks like you and acts like you and just makes you wonder.