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chento4gang · Jun 7, 2009, 01:54 AM

I like a girl who has boy friend but she is best friend of mine, she share everything to me regarding her family,personal problem except boy friend talk.I was in relationship with her from past 8 months and I like her very much. 5 months back I told her I like you but she refused and said she look me as a good friend. Then I had ask for friendship and she agreed. But now game has been change,we use to spent time alone together I help her in every things. But still she hang with her boy friend even she can't allowed this relationship from home and she told him that we can't make it happen.

So I am confused what should I do ? I like her,but I am not sure in what relationship she is in.with me or her boyfriend.

I wish · Jun 7, 2009, 04:46 AM

The game hasn't changed. The reason you guys are spending more time together is because she agreed to a friendship with you. So she believes that you're not chasing her anymore.

You have to stop twisting her friendship into thinking that it's something more. She already told you that she doesn't feel the same way about you. And the fact that she's still with her boyfriend already proves to you that likes someone else.

Just be glad that you two can have a friendship and that she is still part of your life. It's time to stop putting your life on hold for her. It's time to find someone else.

If you feel like you cannot move on with your life because you still having a false sense of hope, then stop talking to her so that you can move on faster.

talaniman · Jun 7, 2009, 06:32 AM

Right on the money Wish, he still thinks he has a chance to be her boyfriend even after being rejected.

Cheng, you really need a life without her, as your confusing her friendship with the hope she will change her mind. Its not happening, and she told you so.

Stop chasing her, and looking like a fool, and either be a friend, or leave her alone. You're the one confused, she isn't.

bizygurl · Jun 7, 2009, 06:38 AM

She wants to stay friends.. then so be it. She's hanging out with her boyfriend more often, well its her boyfriend and that's to be expected.

If she wants to have a relationship with you at some point I'm sure she will let you know since you two are already good friends. But don't wait for her, remain her friend but move on with your life.