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dudevill · May 25, 2009, 03:30 PM

That sounds like she wants your friendship. If this must continue, it seems like you're going to have to deal with being her friend. If you care about her and want her to be happy you should respect her wishes. By saying she doesn't want a relationship but she still wants you there, that is just fancy talk for saying 'I want to stay friends and I'm not ready or willing to maintain a relationship.' She did say she's not going to go for other guys, so she probably just doesn't want a relationship with you or anyone at all. She needs time to herself. What you should do is remain there for her as a friend and make sure not to pressure her at all. It's probably confusing, but be there for her, don't just abandon her, but also don't smother her, or be there too much, if that makes sense.
Basically, do not talk to her about your guys' love life unless she brings it up unprovoked, and listen to the things she talks to you about. Do not go to her with more problems. Be consoling, not controlling. What she wants is to settle down, but she feels she needs someone to talk to and you're her closest friend right now.

Steve1010 · May 25, 2009, 03:34 PM

Why be friends though? Will the relationship come back by being friends?

Steve1010 · May 25, 2009, 05:58 PM

So she said no relationship. I then ended it. Then she said SEE KNEW U Didn't LOVE ME OR CARE Don't TALK TO ME AGAIN! Then on her Facebook she posted so glad its done. Out tonight :)

Wondergirl · May 25, 2009, 06:03 PM

Originally Posted by Steve1010

so she said no relationship. i then ended it. then she said SEE KNEW U DIDNT LOVE ME OR CARE DONT TALK TO ME AGAIN! then on her facebook she posted so glad its done. out tonight :)

She's playing you like an ocean fish. Don't respond in any way. Pretend you now live in a different solar system.

Can you do that?

Steve1010 · May 25, 2009, 06:08 PM

I said I never wanted to breakup that she did. Then she said I loved you more then anytihng and now I see the real you and how big of an a$$ u are. I said I want her and love her she said don't talk to me anymore and was ignoring my calls.. what to do!

Steve1010 · May 25, 2009, 06:08 PM

So now she says she's going out tonight to party!

Wondergirl · May 25, 2009, 06:10 PM

Steve, get a grip!

Don't reply to her when she contacts you. Ok?

Steve1010 · May 25, 2009, 06:13 PM

I'm trying to tell her how much she means to me.. I did what she wanted then she said I never wanted to break up just needed space, you obviously don't care.. she's like don't talk to me anymore.. I'm going to lose it

Wondergirl · May 25, 2009, 06:15 PM

Stop texting her or whatever you are doing. You will LOSE if you continue.

Steve1010 · May 25, 2009, 06:43 PM

She turned it all around on me.. I said I want u. she's like stop talking to me your annoying, she's like I don't want a relationship right now. And I don't wnna be w u. she's like don't text me

Steve1010 · May 25, 2009, 06:48 PM

What do I do? What will happen?

Steve1010 · May 25, 2009, 06:55 PM

Why would she say all this stuff? After I did what she wanted she's like SEE I KNEW U Didn't LOVE ME, now she says don't talk to me

Wondergirl · May 25, 2009, 07:02 PM

Stop texting, Steve!!

Steve1010 · May 25, 2009, 07:06 PM

Well what will become of this

Wondergirl · May 25, 2009, 07:10 PM

Have you stopped? Will you stop and listen to my plan?

Steve1010 · May 25, 2009, 07:12 PM

Yes I sotpped. Whts the [lan

Wondergirl · May 25, 2009, 07:14 PM

Do not contact her or talk with her in ANY way for the next 24 hours.

Can you figure out why I say this?

Steve1010 · May 25, 2009, 07:18 PM

Why? What if she texts me or calls me?

Steve1010 · May 25, 2009, 07:23 PM

24 hours? What will it accomplish?

Wondergirl · May 25, 2009, 07:26 PM

Originally Posted by Steve1010

why? what if she texts me or calls me?

You don't respond to texts, and you don't answer calls from her. (Do you have caller ID?)