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    carla123 Posts: 24, Reputation: 1
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    May 18, 2009, 09:59 PM
    A feeling of uninterest in life. Is this normal?
    OK. So, I am in a good job. I am doing what I like. I Don't WANT to get into any relationship, as I am just out of one completely. There is nothing wrong with my body. I have achieved my Goal. And there are no problems. And now I am looking forward to something new in career... But given that all I good, I still feel soooo empty. I am like - "Been there... done that.. so next what? i don't care"... I am not really interested in what I eat and how I dress... Basically, it's a feeling of uninterest in life. Is this normal? What to do??

    I feel I'd rather just die, instead of living a useless life... what say?
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    May 18, 2009, 10:05 PM

    Volunteer at least two hours a week at an animal shelter, hospital, nursing home, public library, food pantry. Do this for two months, and then report back to us.
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    May 18, 2009, 10:49 PM
    It's only your perception that your life is useless, like Wondergirl has so wisely said, get out there and make yourself useful.

    It may be that you're feeling a little depressed after the break up of your relationship - but this will pass if you occupy yourself and don't feel sorry for yourself.

    Yes, it's easy to sit around and say - oh my life is so useless - so why don't you focus on other people instead of yourself. Go out, meet friends, see your family, play sport, take in a movie - whatever.

    You might even volunteer to assist people who's lives are not as fortunate as yourself and who may well have much better reasons to feel sorry for themselves.
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    May 19, 2009, 04:24 AM

    Would believe that you have got this notion that you are not worth to live life.
    Suggest you to take a walk down your lane and see people not as gifted as you are.

    Well phrased Gemini girl.

    Sure every one gets a bit low in life, but to overcome that join a club,gym .Get some fresh air to yourself and you will feel great.
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    May 19, 2009, 03:51 PM

    So you've accomplished your goals, so now it's time to make new ones.

    Time to get out of your shell and do something outside your comfort zone.

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