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    danielnoahsmommy Posts: 2,506, Reputation: 297
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    Apr 28, 2009, 12:23 AM
    Would you be pissed off at your spouse too? Sorry a little long!
    I would like to know if anyone else would be mad at this and what would you tell your husband or wife.


    1. always showed concern for hubby's many illnesses and injury.

    2) received results on lab work... mind you I have not had a real exam since 2002. Always taking care of someone else. All bad . Excuse spelling... ana positive... urine test shows a component of possible leukemia... its getting retested. And a ferritin of 4.

    3. husband acts if this is a nuisance to him and I am making too much of it and I should wait months to see some local crappy doctor just because it is convenient to him and under our insurance. Meanwhile going out of preferred provider they pay 80%.

    4) my father made a few calls and got me into see a great specialist much sooner and charges 450. I'll get 80% back. Well hubby got pissed off... said I have no reason since my "condition" did not warrant this specialist visit.

    5) he will spend 450 on a dog at a drop of a hat. He has several times in the past few months.

    Would you be mad or is it just me?
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    Gemini54 Posts: 2,871, Reputation: 1116
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    Apr 28, 2009, 12:31 AM
    I'd be mad. But, having said that, men are sometimes weird when their wives get sick.
    Hope it goes OK.
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    Apr 28, 2009, 12:33 AM

    Um... I'd be upset hurt and so on, but its not important what I think.

    It seems what is important is that you consider talking to a counseler, to try and calm yourself, so you don't get too stressed, as stress can affect ones health agreater deal than most care to admit.

    I hope every thing is OK and that you work things out with your husband.

    May Peace and kindness be with you.
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    Nestorian Posts: 978, Reputation: 152
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    Apr 28, 2009, 01:13 AM

    You are quite welcome.

    May peace be with you.

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