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    hollie1988 Posts: 50, Reputation: 2
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    Apr 9, 2009, 07:18 PM
    Where is he?
    I am 20 yrs old
    I never met my dad
    I want to see him but there is a problem... my mom doesn't remember his name
    She was @ the beach with one of her girl friends and they met up with a guy and they partied and had fun... he wrote down his number, name, and where he lives.
    She was 17 yrs olds
    Well she found out she was pregnant and she lost his information.
    All she remembered is his parents owned a hotel and she went down there and couldn't find them.

    It hurts not having a father
    When fathers day comes around I get depressed

    I was wondering if there is any chance that I could do anything to find him??
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    Apr 11, 2009, 05:38 PM

    Knowing the name of the hotel or the name of his parents would be very helpful. Without any family information I am not sure if there is anything anyone could do to locate him. It maybe a long shot but maybe your mothers friend may have some bit of information which may help you.
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    Apr 11, 2009, 05:48 PM

    Yes if you knew what hotel, you could trace him, if you don't know what hotel, just "a" hotel, then no without more info he does not even know about you, so he is not looking either.

    I would say, that I do find it hard to believe that she does not remember his name, esp after she got pregnant

    So you talk to every friend and family member and see if they can remember a little more bits and pieces.
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    Apr 12, 2009, 12:57 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Gem_22205 View Post
    Knowing the name of the hotel or the name of his parents would be very helpful. Without any family information I am not sure if there is anything anyone could do to locate him. It maybe a long shot but maybe your mothers friend may have some bit of information which may help you.

    There is no information
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    Apr 12, 2009, 12:59 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    Yes if you knew what hotel, you could trace him, if you don't know what hotel, just "a" hotel, then no without more info he does not even know about you, so he is not looking either.

    I would say, that I do find it hard to believe that she does not remember his name, esp after she got pregnant

    So you talk to every friend and family member and see if they can remember alittle more bits and pieces.

    He doesn't know about me because when my mom went looking for him she couldn't find him so that is why it's the way it is now
    If she knew I'm sure he would be there for me
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    Apr 12, 2009, 02:01 PM
    Any member of AMHD would be more than willing to assist you to the best of their ability but without any information unfortunately I do not believe that there is anything one can do to properly help you.
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    Apr 13, 2009, 10:25 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Gem_22205 View Post
    Any member of AMHD would be more than willing to assist you to the best of their ability but without any information unfortunately I do not believe that there is anything one can do to properly help you.
    What is AMHD?
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    Apr 13, 2009, 10:28 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by hollie1988 View Post
    what is AMHD?
    Ask Me Help Desk, the website you are on.
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    Apr 13, 2009, 10:29 AM
    Would any of your mother's friends know him or of him?

    Sarah
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    Apr 13, 2009, 10:31 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Justwantfair View Post
    Ask Me Help Desk, the website you are on.


    Yea
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    Apr 13, 2009, 10:32 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by mudweiser View Post
    Would any of your mother's friends know him or of him?

    Sarah
    I don't know who went with her and I don't know her friends
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    Apr 13, 2009, 10:34 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by hollie1988 View Post
    idk who went with her and idk her friends
    She would know.

    Sarah
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    Apr 13, 2009, 10:36 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by mudweiser View Post
    She would know.

    Sarah
    Yea I hope she remember
    She might not remember her number and I know my nana don't
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    Apr 13, 2009, 10:43 AM

    Your mom is pretty wonderful to step up to the plate of single motherhood at 17.

    You look like a stunning woman.

    Good luck to you.
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    Apr 13, 2009, 11:04 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Justwantfair View Post
    Your mom is pretty wonderful to step up to the plate of single motherhood at 17.

    You look like a stunning woman.

    Good luck to you.
    Thank u;)

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