[postalservice]

So I've been battling with hair around my nipples, chest and under my belly botton for I don't know how many years - I'm an 18 year old now and I'm gay. I do get very self conscious when I'm with my partner, simply because I've never been with a girl that has had these same issues as me - and I see their bodies as flawless. I care a lot about staying fit, healthy, and many comment on my slim.. ness? But none of it has a chance to go more than surface deep, I just can't feel good about my body because of these hairs. I've tried tweezing, shaving.. but they just grow in faster, bigger and darker. It's a huge confidence boost right after I shave and they are gone, I usually forget how worried I am all the time around my partner (when we're intimate). Please let me know what I can do, or how YOU feel about this issue I'm having? I have been with my partner for 2 months now, but we love each other very much, I just don't want her to be shocked or something if she catches them un-shaven.. what do I do?

Girls are amazing and beautiful, and I know I wouldn't care if she had them, I know what I'm going through and how hard it is. But she doesn't.. does anyone have any input for me?

Thanks..

[JudyKayTee]

If the hair is troubling you to this extent have you looked into laser hair removal?

[jenn4094u]

Waxing lasts longer. However, the downfall to waxing is that you have to let it grow back a little so you have something to wax off next time...

[earl237]

Consult a dermatologist about permanent hair removal options such as electrolysis. It can be painful and time-consuming, but worth it in the long run.