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    Niseguy Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 22, 2009, 02:37 PM
    Looking for some opinions
    Okays I have this "best freind" a girl, she's from brasil we have only been friends for a month ( she's only been here for a month ) she calls me best friends and when I first met her there was a connection instant talking, getting to know each other, hanging out and there still is. I help her with guys but they never seem to work out for her, but I try to help her anyway because well I feel a lot for this girl haha so I'm not sure what to really do I know just about everything about her... but I don't know if I should just go for it and tell her how I really feel or just wait a bit and see what happens
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    Feb 22, 2009, 02:55 PM

    Confront her with your feelings, see if she feels the same way. Only she can tell you how she feels. This might take her by surprise as you have "helped her with other guys". So go easy.
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    Feb 23, 2009, 08:17 AM

    Its only been a month, so sorry I doubt you know everything about her. See if she hangs out with you first and if you have fun with dating for a few months then see what happens.

    Too much, to fast, crash and burn. In other words go slow and do not push her away by overwhelming her.

    Only a month?? Way to soon.
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    Feb 23, 2009, 08:34 AM

    Enjoy this time getting to know her, don't immediately look for the relationship aspect, the best relationships are built through friendship, which you are starting at right now.
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    Feb 23, 2009, 08:54 PM
    Haha I hang out with her everyday, but yes I understand what you mean and thanks I'll just keep doing what I'm doing
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    Mar 17, 2009, 12:38 AM

    So what happen?
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    Aug 19, 2010, 02:13 PM

    I am Brazilian too. From your culture guys got to have initiative on kissing a girl or asking a girl out.

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