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    Feb 4, 2009, 09:34 PM
    Who got me pregnant?
    Well, my lmp was November 30... and I had sex with my boyfriend on December 8... I ran into my ex and we had sex on December 12... on December 21 my boyfriend and I had sex again... I am now 9 weeks pregnant and unsure who got me pregnant. Please help.
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    Feb 4, 2009, 09:39 PM

    Guess you will be doing a paternity test when the child is born.

    Timeline conception analysis isn't fool proof. DNA is.
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    Feb 5, 2009, 09:23 AM

    Are you 9wks by your LMP or by ultrasound?
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    Feb 5, 2009, 09:26 AM

    Are you planning on telling either of these two men there is a potential other father?

    If you are trying to confirm or determine the father on you own, you are running a huge risk of obligating a man that is not the father.
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    Feb 5, 2009, 01:34 PM

    Do you have a regular 28 day cycle?

    Figuring out who fathered your child by the calendar is not very reliable. The only way to know for sure is with a DNA test.

    You have a moral obligation to tell both men the truth though.
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    Feb 5, 2009, 05:57 PM

    DNA is the only way to tell. I am 15 weeks pregnant. My husband and I were actively trying, keeping track of LMP and everything. We conceived only to find out that I was not as far along as we thought. Here I ovualted about 2 weeks later than normal, and it was just luck that we got pregnant. Moral to my story: you really never know when you ovulate. Now you have to wait until the baby is born and get a paternity test done.
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    Feb 7, 2009, 12:35 PM

    My guess is the ex is the father. Still, I have no way of really knowing when you ovualted or if one man has stronger swimers. You really need to have DNA testing done.
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