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    murker1 Posts: 8, Reputation: 1
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    #1

    Feb 2, 2009, 04:59 PM
    Don't want to seem desperate
    So recently my friends set me up with this girl,
    We hit it off straight away, got abit tipsy and snogged in the cinema, walked her home and gave her a good night kiss,
    The next couple of days we've texted/called each other,
    However we've been texting/calling a lot less latley,
    And I don't want to call her too much because then ill seem desperate, :( ,
    Please help and tell me what I should do, :confused:,

    Thanks guys.
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    Feb 2, 2009, 05:08 PM

    Quit texting, and go out and have fun, its called a date. Then you can get to know each other.
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    Feb 2, 2009, 05:46 PM
    Why don't you ask her if she wants to hang out with you and your friends?
    Maybe you guys can do some sort of activity together, whatever you both like.
    Remember to take it slow... No need to rush.
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    Feb 2, 2009, 05:58 PM

    Yeah, don't just call her. Only call her when you want to set up a date, which should be no more than once-a-week for now. You should slowly spend time together. No sense rushing into something that may not be right. Take your time and just have fun my man, and that way you won't have to worry about smothering or coming off as too needy.

    If there's anything I've learned in relationships, it's this: When you're not around, you can't damage your reputation with girls. And also, you have nothing to lose by taking your time to get to know each other.
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    Feb 3, 2009, 04:17 AM

    Yeah, text sucks. Get to know her for real.
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    Feb 3, 2009, 06:10 AM

    Set up another "date" or try setting up a group get together. Texting will only lead to miscommunication between you two.
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    Feb 3, 2009, 08:13 AM
    Thanks for your advice, ill try set something for this Friday and see how it works out. :)

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