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    MINDYPOO Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 23, 2009, 01:54 AM
    Courting a male paranoid schizophrenic
    Hi needs some help, been friends for 2 yrs with this person even though been turbulant as in pushing me away and then panicking when I gone pulling me back in,we finally revealed our feelings and decided to court it only lasted 1 week and 4 days he family wernt happy about it even though they liked me ,it took 2 yrs to hold hand and hug that's all we did in that 1 week then he broke up with me his not talking to me and the hard thing is we see each other twice a week at church ,its so hard for me he looks stronger than me I worried that I am vulnerable to him,is he gouing to do his normal pattern and come back I don't know what to expect at the moment his not talking to me he only looks at me from the corner of his eye ,don't know what to do or what to expect, help a.s.a.p
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    Jan 23, 2009, 11:21 AM

    You are not his mother. Apparently he might think you are treating you like that. You should focus on trying to find a normal person who wants you as a girlfriend and is willing to treat you like one. This guy needs his mommy, not a girlfriend.
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    Jan 23, 2009, 02:16 PM

    He is too sick for you.

    Look for another potential boyfriend.

    Best wishes, :)
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    Jan 25, 2009, 01:13 AM

    A parnoid schizophrenic does not have the same kind of feelings nor a normal pattern of thinking. Males especially can be unpredictable, and turn violent for no reason. Their paranoia has no basis, as they fear that "everyone is out to get them".
    You could be in danger to get too intimate with this person. It is best to stay only on friendly terms. He is probably (or should be) on strong medications to control his moods and thoughts, yet his behavior can still be unpredictable.
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    Jan 30, 2009, 12:18 AM

    It doesn't matter if he is a religious person or not. It is his thinking processes that are messed up. It's like in his brain: "2 + 2 = 5, I know I'm right, you're just trying to get me."
    If you were to ever get in an argument it is very likely he has no anger control. He may not get physical or he may explode on you. It depends on whether you are alone with him or not.
    Nothing wrong with being friends. If only people did that first their relationships might be better off. At least they would know who they are going with.

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