Originally Posted by
oryansbelt
I don't know where she gets these things that she says.
Almost every healthy 12 year old teenager is busy with "these things". It is the main talk with friends and at school.
Originally Posted by
oryansbelt
I think that something might be wrong with her because she says that she might as well keep doing it because she is going to hell anyways for it.
With all respect : there seems little wrong with her. Something I can not say of you...
"Going to hell anyways for it"?? Your problems may more be located within the fundamentalist religious field you appear to be involved in.
Originally Posted by
oryansbelt
Is she worse off then I thought?
I do not think so. I fear you are worse off than you think...
Just my advice : do not push your daughter so much. Do not (only) put your rules forward.
Guide her. Remember that she has daily contact with other teenagers who do exactly the same as she does now.
But keep alert on her Internet activities, and make her aware of the dangers on the Internet.
Suggested locks on her computer will only drive her away from you.
Stay with your daughter. She needs your guidance, and not you as her prison guard.
:)
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