Originally Posted by
xbabycakesxx
we've already had sex and it was unprotected
Well, stop doing that. Tell him, no protection--no sex. And stick to that.
You two can't have it both ways--having unprotected sex, but with NO plans and no agreement for what happens if you get pregnant.
You didn't say this, but I'm wondering if he's pressuring you for sex but not wanting to use a condom. If he's doing that and you are then having unprotected sex, then YOU are deciding to have unprotected sex as much as he is. If he's irresponsible, that doesn't let you off the hook to be responsible and use birth control or say no. It IS possible to say no to sex, though you may not be feeling like that.
Wake up.
An unplanned pregnancy isn't a temporary problem.