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    luciapappas Posts: 11, Reputation: 2
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    Dec 12, 2008, 08:25 AM
    Hey Southerngalps,

    Thanks for your advise you gave me couple of time. You thought me not to be rough with myself. I will provide a brief story for you so you can get more familiar with my story:
    When my teacher found out that I had a crush on him he started to dress differently. He become very shy when he was around me. He started to shave. He looked so hansome. Every other week I would see him he ware new outfits. When I approached him couple of time he would accidentally drops things on the floor such as book, pencil. I was acting just like him very clumsy around him. One day he had his class right next to mine and made a wrong turn, he got in my class by mistake. For a second I thought he was coming towards me but when he saw that our communication teacher was still there he change his mind and turn around(blushing) and said uups wrong turn. I than smiled to him. He felt so embaressed. I wanted you to get familiar with my story about my teacher. I don't have any doubts he liked me. But we all learn to move on. We can't hold on these memories forever if we want to get better.


    You do have a gret memory about my personal dilema. I had to move on and push him ( teacher) out of my conscience and to do I start liking another teacher just to minimize the intensity and the felling I had for the prior one. I am just fighting my own feelings. I am moving on. PS. Someone joke around this website and asked me if I fall in love with my dentist or my lawyer something like that. Ha, ha, I don't fall easily with everybody. Tell me if I am doing the right thing. I think everyone would do the same thing in order to move on.
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    southerngalps Posts: 1,334, Reputation: 112
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    Dec 12, 2008, 09:35 AM

    That is a way that people move on... starting to have feelings with someone else.

    However, I am concerned with it being another teacher. It just causes problems. Do you got out and meet other men? Or do you just meet people at school?
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    Dec 12, 2008, 10:03 AM
    All your posts have been merged into one, to stop the confusion, and scroll down the page your on, and you will see where to respond.

    To give my opinion, having feelings is okay for another human being is okay, as long as you don't get carried away or let them control your actions, so stay within the boundaries of good behavior.

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