[ILOVEJH]

There is a boy that I went out with ages ago and I have loved him ever since we broke up. I am miserable.I think about him every night and I want him to love me back. We are good friends but I want more. What do I do?

[kctiger]

Quit being friends with him, as it is killing your emotional well being. You cannot make him love you. You need to get him out of your life for awhile and get your feelings under control. You will NEVER get over him if you remain friends with him. All you are doing is prolonging the pain and anguish for yourself, stunting your growth and future.

At that, have you told him how you feel? If he shows no romantic interest in you I think you need to back off. Quit hurting yourself.

[talaniman]

You keep trying to restart a dead fire, and have never gotten over him, so forget the friends stuff, until you do.

He may not understand, but you will be miserable, hoping for something he doesn't give you.

[Eli2231]

I'm not one to give advice for I just received some on my issue but I will tell you this... If you feel this way about him you can't honestly be friends with him. You'll always want something more, you'll always have ulterior motives and when he meets another girl it's going to tear you up inside. Back off for a while and try to get over him.

[MiSSsy111222]

I think its for the best if you cut contact with him, talking to him only makes you want him... its for the best. Good luck x

[expat2009]

What the other guys say above is true.

By being his friend you are only inflicting more pain on yourself. You need to back away and cut all contact with him. Give yourself a significant amount of time to recover and get over him. If he's this great person you think he is, then maybe one day, you can be real friends again. No feelings attached.

[ZoeMarie]

Everyone else said it. You need to walk away from this situation if you're going to get over him.