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    The WB Posts: 78, Reputation: 6
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    #21

    Oct 13, 2006, 11:45 AM
    Your heart is what is getting you into this situation. LOVE IS BLIND. Sit back, open your eyes and seriously think about what you want to do.
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    Oct 25, 2006, 04:57 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by sugars_hot15
    i have a hard time trusting people in general but im dating my ex again after 3 years of not talking we broke up the 1st time 3 years ago bcuz he cheated on me and i dont take that crap but i took him back a 2nd time and the same thing happened and now im dating him again 3 years later for the 3rd time and he seems like hes changed and its truly amazing its shocking but i dont know if i can trust him or if i should contiune with him he makes me happy he says i make him happy but u know the old saying once a cheater always a cheater but its different now what should i do???
    I think that you should trust him but keep him close to you and try talking to him about that. That way you could find out if he really loves you. Also make sure you tell him that honestly that is the last time that you will get him back, and that there will be no more chances. The point is for him to understand if he loves you for real. ;)
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    Oct 25, 2006, 11:57 PM
    I think that once one party oF the relationship has cheated, then its pointless trying and trying. Even if bless her luck he won't ever cheat on her again, the relationship by far won't ever ever be the same.
    How could you trust that person?
    As I said even if he never cheated again on her, what kind of a relationship it will be?
    1. If you argue, that topic will definitley arise again.
    2. If he is late from work, your mind will start playing loads of tricks on you.
    3. If he goes out with his buddies you will be driving yourself mad at home wondering what on earth he is up to...
    4. If his mobile rings and takes the call in private you will wondering again who's on the other end of the phone...

    Its not worthed... MOVE ON.
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    Oct 26, 2006, 04:25 AM
    I agree Tal... its so not worthed... you will be heading down another road of heart ache.
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    Jan 22, 2007, 06:35 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by sugars_hot15
    i have a hard time trusting people in general but im dating my ex again after 3 years of not talking we broke up the 1st time 3 years ago bcuz he cheated on me and i dont take that crap but i took him back a 2nd time and the same thing happened and now im dating him again 3 years later for the 3rd time and he seems like hes changed and its truly amazing its shocking but i dont know if i can trust him or if i should contiune with him he makes me happy he says i make him happy but u know the old saying once a cheater always a cheater but its different now what should i do???
    Well, you have started a new relationship, you need to try to trust each other... but considering the history it might not be a bad idea to have you eyes open, maybe talk to him about your fears, see what he has to say, you'll feel better to get it off your chest and share it with the one you love. Love is worth the try
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    Jan 23, 2007, 11:54 AM
    I had the same thing happen to me with a guy. That's why I never truly said I love you to a guy. Guys are to hard to trust. They are always lying about everything!I went back for the guy a second time like you did but after that breakup,I moved on. He pissed me off so badly. I didn't want to be hurt anymore and if you don't than you should just forget about this guy. If you want to keep this relationship still going right now, then that's your choice. But if he does it again, you better move on from his stupid ! Try someone else who is true to you and you can actually trust in. it's hard, trust me, but you'll find someone soon. Open your eyes.
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    Jan 23, 2007, 02:31 PM
    Guys are not the only gender to lie... it's the type of preson that lies, not a specific gender. I think it may be that guys just get caught more often in their lies than women do.

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