[link3236]

I really like this girl who is turning seventeen on Sunday. I am 15 and she says that she doesn't like younger guys. I play soccer with her bro and she has told me that she finds everyone on the team attractive but she says that we are all to young. How can I ask her out and have her like me as a boyfriend.

[starbuck8]

Slow down. If you want to ask her out, just ask her if she would be interested in going to see a movie or something like that, but don't ask or go with expectations of becoming her "boyfriend".

A 17 yr. old girl most often is interested in older boys. Boys that are at least their age or older, not younger, which she has already said. If it turns out she does like you, and agrees to see you, take things slow.

I hate to say this, but it is almost a certainty, that if you do get involved with her, it most likely won't last long. She likely has more freedom to do what she wants now, at 17, than you at 15, and she is going to want to take advantage of that freedom.

Good luck, but my best advice to you would be to look for girls your own age. You will have more in common with them. :)

[talaniman]

Plan 1- Ask her out, and get rejected.

Plan2- Ask her out, and she says yes.

[kctiger]

Plan 3 - Develop some guts and let this girl know how good of a guy you are. Send some flowers and sweep her off her feet.

Plan 4 - If that doesn't work, just find someone else.

Go for it!

[JBeaucaire]

Plan 5 - stop ignoring what girls tell you and respect it.