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P DOT · Oct 28, 2008, 09:28 PM

How do I make my wife have a orgasm fast

Wondergirl · Oct 28, 2008, 09:35 PM

Her orgasm begins in her brain hours before you two have sex. If you are loving and giving, helpful and a good listener, affectionate and gentle, imaginative and creative throughout the day, she might surprise you with how fast she can reach an orgasm when you make love to her. Of course, you have to be all those things honestly and devotedly, not as a one-time trial.

missingpieces · Oct 28, 2008, 10:45 PM

I totally agree, a day of teasing topped off with an "i have to have you now" quicky always gets the job done quickly for me :)

homebirthmom · Oct 28, 2008, 10:49 PM

The more pressure you place on her, for climaxing, the more difficult she will find it to do so. Let it come naturally, not rushed, and don't be too dissapointed if she doesn't climax. Give it a little while, then try again, but put more emphasis on enjoyment rather than a specific goal.

smoothy · Oct 29, 2008, 05:17 AM

Women are not a fast food drive up window. If you want fast, go to the McDonalds drive through window.

Few women want or enjoy a "get in", "get off", "get out", "get lost" session.

Choux · Oct 29, 2008, 11:43 AM

You have to have a woman who *wants to/is able* to orgasm fast... you have to be the kind of man this woman REALLY LIKES!!

However, there are very few of this kind of woman and many women are with the wrong men, unfortunately.

simoneaugie · Oct 29, 2008, 12:38 PM

Wondergirl is right. But you don't have to have a perfect day. It's mostly attitude and communication of what you're thinking and feeling. Also, she must be with you in attitude. You can not do it all yourself, unfortunately.

Absolute · Oct 29, 2008, 01:09 PM

Wow, there's a lot of answer up there. ^^^
Well, there's a place in her body called her 'G'-spot. It's in her vagina. Also on the outer region of her vagina above there's her . Now, if you rub that while thrusting I'm pretty sure she'll orgasm very very fast. ;) Also, softly touch her inner thigh BEFORE you have intercoarse. Trace her thighs with your fingers. It'll get her excited AND it'll prepare her for sex and orgasms.

Absolute · Oct 29, 2008, 01:11 PM

Homebirthmom is right. More enjoyment. If you want her to enjoy it more. There is the clitterous. (if that's how you spell it) above the vagina. Rub there while thrusting. It works.

Choux · Oct 29, 2008, 02:26 PM

Wondergirl is way off base in my opinion--too passive aggressive and controlling.

Quote... "Her orgasm begins in her brain **hours before** you two have sex. If you are loving and giving, helpful and a good listener, affectionate and gentle, imaginative and creative throughout the day, she might surprise you with how fast she can reach an orgasm when you make love to her. Of course, you have to be all those things honestly and devotedly, not as a one-time trial."-Wondergirl

Plus, she is describing a parent, not a spouse.

A person is allowed to be their authentic self, of course having a good personality.

How about the shoe on the other foot. A man might say of a wife he is disappointed in.

My wife should start hours ahead of time by wearing a short skirt and no shoes while doing housework along with a bra with the nipples cut out. Then sit in a chair and flash me during the day as well as manipulating her nipples. Also bend over. Greet the UPS man at the door.

Just my opinion.

I think you get the point. :)

J_9 · Oct 30, 2008, 02:20 PM

Nah, Wondergirl is not off base, actually she is right on the money. A woman's orgasm begins in the brain. With love affection and the right enticement throughout the day, the anticipation can be worth the wait.

You see, a little erotica all day long, whether it be physical, or by text or even just the right look or the right touch throughout the day is the way to go. While men are very visual beings, women are very mental beings. We have to be enticed a little at a time and then BANG you never know what will happen.