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    Sep 23, 2008, 09:00 AM
    Move already?
    I met a couple guys at two consecutive periods but because of location I stopped talking to them. They both have asked me to move to where they are. Without even dating yet. What the heck? I'm confused about the concept of moving somewhere and not knowing anyone to date just one person and seeing where it could end up. Why do guys like them ask girls they really just like to move already?
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    Sep 23, 2008, 09:04 AM

    Don't be a fool and move somewhere cause a guy asked you too
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    Sep 23, 2008, 09:08 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by angelaM1985 View Post
    dont be a fool and move somewhere cause a guy asked you too
    Duh? My question is why they ask so soon? If there has anyone been in a situation like so or has been the person asking someone they hardly know move somewhere? WHY?
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    Sep 23, 2008, 09:14 AM

    Guys are guys what more do u exspect out of them
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    Sep 23, 2008, 09:28 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by angelaM1985 View Post
    guys are guys what more do u exspect out of them
    What is your perspective on "guys are just guys"?
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    Sep 23, 2008, 09:44 AM

    Done every day, people chat online and one moves to go be with the other. Or two people who don't even know each others name meet at the bar and "hook" up that night ( not quite the same but getting the idea)
    So they hope it will be good, think if not, at least some weeks of good sex before it falls apart, and the guys are not out anything, since they did not move.
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    Sep 23, 2008, 09:54 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    done every day, people chat online and one moves to go be with the other. or two people who don't even know each others name meet at the bar and "hook" up that night ( not quite the same but getting the idea)
    So they hope it will be good, think if not, at least some weeks of good sex before it falls apart, and the guys are not out anything, since they did not move.
    Ahh I see or get the idea.. pretty much a game for who can be pulled for more from the other or something like that.
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    Sep 23, 2008, 10:08 AM

    Heck I know the feeling, I am single and have had similar chances if I wanted to ask ladies to come to live with or near me. I have even had a couple offers from ladies to move in with them.

    I don't understand current dating if that is what we call it myself.
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