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    Sep 14, 2008, 10:38 PM
    Girlfriend experiencing pain after oral sex
    My girlfriend and I had oral sex for about an hour and her got very swollen but she didn't orgasm. We then had sex but it only lasted about 2 minutes. After we had sex she was complaining about pain in her , saying that it hurt and it was hard to walk. She says this has never happened to her before. Is this normal?
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    Sep 14, 2008, 10:56 PM
    Sorry, the site blocked out the word I was using. The word that is missing is clitoris.
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    Sep 14, 2008, 11:00 PM
    Constant contact with anything that sensitive can cause swelling and irritation. Maybe you were doing it too long or you were a little too rough. For her, if it doesn't feel better in a couple of days tell her to speak with her gyno about it.
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    Sep 15, 2008, 12:41 PM
    I'm not surprised. Its like a mexican hat dance. You dance all around the hat, getting really close to it but without actually stomping all over it.
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    Sep 15, 2008, 01:02 PM
    Remember that area on a woman is very sensitive. Rough stimulation over a longer (or even short) period can cause pain for a while. Keep in mind that you may also like what you are doing, but if she doesn't that defeats the purpose.

    Pain after is not totally abnormal but if it is consistent for any period seek professional medical advice.
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    Sep 20, 2008, 12:36 PM
    Waaaay too much genital contact, the poor girl.

    Spend a lot of time making love to everything on her body EXCEPT HER GENITALS. Her mind, her breasts, her neck, her back, her thighs, etc etc etc.

    Pornography depicts endless female genital contact because it is porn. It is not effective love making in real life for most women.

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