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    meecy12 Posts: 133, Reputation: 2
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    Sep 4, 2008, 04:10 PM
    New boyfriend
    I just got into a relationship with a boy who I like a lot and want to be with. But I'm also really really independent, and desperately need alone time. He's kind of the opposite and wants to see me all the time.

    I am also not sure if I can handle a boyfriend because I am shy and nervous and suffer from depression so I always feel like I make a mistake

    Is it worth it?
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    Sep 4, 2008, 05:05 PM
    Communication is the key to any relationship. So you should talk to him and let him know your feelings.

    And take it all very slow at the beginning.
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    Sep 4, 2008, 05:10 PM
    I also agree with the talking about it, and lay your cards out, and get an understanding between you, which means be willing to compromise.
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    Sep 5, 2008, 09:48 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by meecy12
    I just got into a relationship with a boy who i like a lot and want to be with.
    Hey,"meecy12" that's a very positive remark to make :)

    You're at a new [and very happy] phase just now,with this relationship
    I'm sure that your positive outlook in life,will serve you well.

    Sure you need alone time [that's fine! ] Every healthy relationship has that.
    Just be aware that your boyfriend would also like [and need] to see you,once in a
    While :D
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    Sep 5, 2008, 09:53 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by meecy12
    i just got into a relationship with a boy who i like a lot and want to be with. But i'm also really really independant, and desperately need alone time. He's kind of the opposite and wants to see me all the time.

    i am also not sure if i can handle a boyfriend because i am shy and nervous and suffer from depression so i always feel like i make a mistake

    is it worth it??
    I I think that you should give it a try. If you think that it is getting over wlehming then talk with the guy and see if you guys could set up an agreement.

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