Please. Help me get over her
Hello,
I really need help.
I am at my wits end with my ex girlfriend. I am a gay woman who met this other woman on the internet about 2 years ago. I was her first female relationship. She was married ( in the process of divorce) and has 2 children. Well, we fell in love deeply. One day, after a year she met another woman, who is 14 years younger then her, and who is in better shape them me and basically, left me.
She swears to this day that she was not seeing her when we were together, but I think she is not telling the truth.
Anyway, she just told me one day, out of the blue that she didn't feel the same way about me as I do about her. I have been crushed for over a year now. The weird thing about it is, we never stopped talking to each other for more than 2 weeks at a time. We have been e-mailing each other almost every day. We chat on the phone and it's like were still together. I just put up with her telling me about her girlfriend because, I still love her and hope that one day she will return.
I am in recovery from alcohol and she is a daily drinker. This was difficult for me but, I honestly believe that she is the ONE for me. I have been in long term relationships before and never did it hurt this bad to be away from someone. I've been in therapy and these feeling just will not go away.
She wants to be my friend, to have me in her life. She flirts with me at times and I enjoy it.
Please help, I haven't talked to her in 8 days (thought I'd try no contact) but it's killing me.
I have someone else who loves me and is good to me but, all I can think about is how to get my ex back. Please Help!!
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