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    miss confusion Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 26, 2008, 02:19 PM
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    Ok so I broke up with my ex-boyfriend over the summer and got a new one who is really sweet. My ex ask me to do things I did not want to do and he said he understood but I broke up with him because I didn't want to hold him back from what he wanted. Nobody liked him except for me because he won't let many people in to his head. He let me in and then I hurt him. I thought I was helping but I wasn't. My new boyfriend is the opposite from him sweet and nice to everyone and I really care about him. Now that school is back in I see them both. I want them both too. They are like two halves of what my heart wants, together they would make me be happy. I know I can't have both but I don't know which to choose. They each have 50% of my heart, which makes me 100% confused.
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    Aug 26, 2008, 02:47 PM
    I truly think its possible to love more than one person at any given time. My advice to you would be that your ex is an ex for a reason, but your feelings don't just change over night. The fact that your ex has '50%' of your heart suggests that your not over him and you jumped straight into something else too soon. Your only option now is to take yourself out of this situation completely and you know what that means.. ditch them both and concentrate on making yourself happy and whole.
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    Aug 27, 2008, 04:24 AM
    Your ex is a habit it will take time to get over. That's all.

    Always live your life in the present. Try not to miss good things going on today because you're pondering over your yesterdays. Hard, I know, but you can do it.

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