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Gadget0621 · Apr 11, 2006, 09:31 PM

My ex-boyfriend and I spent time together in New York last week. He was very defensive towards me when we last spoke. I told him not to contact me anymore because I don’t need that type of negativity in my life. Does anyone foresee him changing for the better? Is he going to be negative like this the rest of his life? His birthday is 2/14/83 and mine is 06/21/84. Only readings from psychics, please.

fredg · Apr 12, 2006, 04:37 AM

Hi,
I am not a Psychic, so can't give you a "psychic" reading. You might have to find one of those "pay" sites for such a thing.
People don't usually change attitudes, unless something happens to make them want to. Some don't even see they have bad attitudes. The chances of your ex changing his mind and attitudes are "slim and none".
It could also be his way of breaking up with you.
I do wish you the best, and eventually, you will find someone just right for you.

DJ 'H' · Apr 12, 2006, 05:07 AM

I am not a Psychic, but I would be inclinded to sy that your ex boyfriend is not going to change and you should really leave the past where it is and concentrate on the present and the furture - that's all that matters now. He is no longer a part of your life! Time to let go.

Hypatia · Apr 19, 2006, 10:45 AM

I think you did the right thing. People who love you shouldnt treat those they love with disrespect. the sooner you stop it from happening to you, the less likely it will in the future. Love is a beautiful experience if you let it be.
You told him not to contact you ever again. If he truly loves you, he would have by now appologising and sending flowers. If he hasnt, its what he wanted in the first place. To set you off to leave him cause he has someone else!

Hypatia

Gadget0621 · May 21, 2007, 10:39 PM

Originally Posted by Hypatia

I think you did the right thing. People who love you shouldnt treat those they love with disrespect. the sooner you stop it from happening to you, the less likely it will in the future. Love is a beautiful experience if you let it be.
You told him not to contact you ever again. If he truly loves you, he would have by now appologising and sending flowers. If he hasnt, its what he wanted in the first place. To set you off to leave him cause he has someone else!

Hypatia

I actually broke up with him when we were about 17 years old. We agreed on maintaining a friendship but he really hasn't been a good friend for several years. He has always been rude to me when I visit him and I just kept taking it partly because I thought that he would change and see the err of his ways. Now I know that that would probably never happen. And actually that someone else is himself. Always has been and forever will be! I don't know any other woman that will put up with his arrogance. You're right people who love you shouldn't disrespect you so that's why I don't communicate with him at all:)