[sweet17bean]

I really like this guy. He's like amazing. We've known each other for about two months. I kind of wish I knew what to do, he's a marine. Stationed in another country till January. I know I'd wait for him. The first time we kissed it was amazing, nothing I had felt before. I didn't expect it, and he did it all on his own. I felt butterflies, my legs went numb and I could speak at all. But he's got an ex who is prenant with his kid. And he tells me he doesn't love her, and as far as I know they aren't together. He doesn't believe in love or marriage, and I've got this feeling that he's the guy of my dreams, besides the love and marriage thing. What should I do.

[tickle]

If he tells you he is not interested in love and marriage, what else is there to know ? He has a child coming, doesn't matter if it is with ex or not. He is still attached.

You may think he is the one but look at it this way, he took the time to tell you how he feels and I would suggest that you should know he is not relationship material from thiat communication.

[Romefalls19]

Yea, not relationship material. Why wait around for him hoping he will change his mind when he has already stated it's not happening

[Fr_Chuck]

Sounds like he is interested in someone to hang with when home and to have sex with, at least till you end up pregnant. So if there is no love and no future of marriage, what in the world makes him anything, esp not perfect

[ISneezeFunny]

... just out of curiosity... are you 17 years old?

[enigmagnetic]

And if you are 17, do you realize that you are probably to inexperienced to even navigate the complications you're about to endure with such a baggage filled tryst!? Forget him, find someone who has a bit less testosterone and have a nice time.