[joeoconnell2008]

Well I am going out wit a girl now.

But I am I love wit another girl that is my ex.

I love my girlfriend.

But I love my ex more.
I don't want her 2 no because of old problems.

But I can't get her out of my mind.

And I no I can't dump my girlfriend now just because of it.
I'm really confused about what to do.

And could really use some helpful advice.

[talaniman]

Leave them both alone, and work on getting your own head on straight.

[talaniman]

thanks. But its no that easy 2 break a persons heart.

So leading them down a blind alley is easier?? Some choices are hard, but for the best.

[liz28]

joeoconnell2008 agrees: thanks. But its no that easy 2 break a persons heart.


You'll break your girlfriend heart if you continue to stay with her and hurt her more than you know. Your head needs to be clear and you cannot give yourself completely to someone when your in love with someone else. Otherwise you need to focus on one person. Do you still have contact with your ex? If so, its unfair to your girlfriend and that mean you was never over her before you entered into a relationship with this current girl. Now that's not right!

[joeoconnell2008]

Yes I'm sill in contact.
But I always was.
She was always a friend to me.
But how could I say it o her.

I really appriciate the advice ye are giving.
And I thank ye for it.

But I really don't even no what 2 say to her or anything.

[joeoconnell2008]

So leading them down a blind alley is easier???? Some choices are hard, but for the best.

No it is not.
I agree wit you but doing it all seems hard to me.

And it will be even harder on her.
I still care about my girlfriend but I can't get the ex out of my head.

[KissMe10der]

You shouldn't date unless you have your heart and head in the right place. Otherwise, how is it fair?