[marinewifetobe]

The man in going to marry is a Marine and he isn't in the USA right now and I stay in CAIL. When he returns we are to be marry around April 2009. He thinks it will be better if we Marry in NC and I feel its better if we do it in CAIL. I feel this way because my fam and are friend are her, we both have children and they are here in CAIL also. It will be easyer for me to plan our weddy it out here than NC. When the wedding is over I told him we can go honeymoon some where nice on the eastcost and go to NC and start getting are things to gether in NC. My home is up in may of 2009 and we can be on the road to NC the day its up. He thinks its better for all my fam and friend that want to atted to come to NC and when the wedding is over I stay and we do everything like finding a home and child care than I go back to CAIL and pack up the children a return to NS in may. L need help with changing his mind to see my way is cheaper than his. If we did it His way we have to get 15 round trip tickis and that's just fam and 3 friend on my side. On his 6 round tirp ticks, o yeah on my side we will have to get hotel for the fam but if we did it my way we won't, I have 5 home that his fam can stay at. Help

[bushg]

When I have a problem making my husband understand. I make a list and show him on paper why I think my way is better.

[Fr_Chuck]

A man and a marine on top of that, can't think of a way.

Also why does he want NC