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    Jun 18, 2008, 06:40 PM
    19 yo male with a 31 yo female
    Is it wrong for a 19 yo to be with a 31 yo and if not would it work out cz I'm worryed for my friend that it's a bit much can any one help me so I can try and help my friend
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    Jun 18, 2008, 06:42 PM
    It can work out, there is an age difference, that's for sure. But this is their business. Do THEY have a problem with it?

    Also, please spell words out and use correct grammar.
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    Jun 18, 2008, 06:47 PM
    Sorry about the grammar and the miss spelt words and no they don't have a problem with this I was just woundering if if there was any legalitys behind it but I guess not with them both being over the age of 18?
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    Jun 18, 2008, 06:50 PM
    There are no legalities against this, since the 19 year old is above the age of consent. However, they are in two different stages of life.
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    Jun 18, 2008, 06:50 PM
    That saying, "Age ain't nothin' but a number" is actually true. I know 40+ year olds that have the life experience and maturity of a 16 year old and vice versa. You can't judge someone only by the numbers of years they've been alive. Living & learning is the only way to grow and mature. So for that reason, I'd just let your friend live and learn. This relationship may or may not work out but I don't believe it's doomed simply because they have an age difference and I honestly feel that you're worrying in vein. If they're happy together, let them enjoy their relationship - no matter how long or short it may be. If things are not working out for your friend in their relationship, I'm sure they will leave. Just be there as a friend if they need you, but realize that there's nothing wrong about their relationship, at least from the age difference standpoint. After all, they are both adults.
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    Jun 18, 2008, 06:56 PM
    OK thank you all I guess that's cleared it all up and I will just be there if my friend is to need support and thank you all once again
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    Jun 18, 2008, 06:59 PM
    If they don't have an issue with the age, you shouldn't, just be a supportive friend...

    JesusHelper is going on a GREENIE spree!
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    Jun 18, 2008, 08:20 PM
    They are both consenting adults.
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    Jun 18, 2008, 08:22 PM
    Consenting adults, don't ask, don't tell.
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