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    Mar 10, 2006, 08:36 PM
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    OK so what if this girl says that she's kind of busy with sport for awhile and doesn't think she's ready for a Bf now. But says she loves talking to me and tells me that I'm nice.what do I do.
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    Mar 10, 2006, 08:55 PM
    Respect what she says as true

    She may be just trying to let you down easy, but she may not. It could very well be she's got enough on her plate and a boyfriend just isn't a top priority.

    If you liked her enough to ask her out, you should like her enough to be a friend
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    Mar 10, 2006, 11:01 PM
    Be cool, talk, act normally but do not push the subject. If you push wanting more even though the other party wants to focus on the sports. You could push that person completely away, no more friends. There is a fine line but all means when the time is there just enjoy it.

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    Mar 11, 2006, 06:57 AM
    Hi,
    You have some good answers already.
    She said she loves "talking" with you. She is not "in love" with you, but does want to be friends.
    What do you do? Either accept her as a friend, treat her with respect and caring as one does for a friend, or move on and don't talk with her anymore.
    Best of luck, and hang in there. Life shows us that we don't always get everything we want, and for us to be happy with what we do have.
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    Mar 11, 2006, 11:58 AM
    She may need some time to think about it. Like I've said in other posts - some people just aren't ready for a relationship at a certain. It has a lot to do wit htiming.

    My advice would be to keep your options open. Talk with her - BUT, look for other wonmen. Date others.
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    Mar 11, 2006, 08:49 PM
    Keep talking to her and being nice just like you've been doing without putting any kind of pressure on her. She may eventually have a change of heart. I can't make any promises but you've got nothing to lose by hanging in there, being patient and adopting a wait-and-see attitude.
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    Mar 12, 2006, 12:17 PM
    What's wrong with just being her friend? Talk laugh hang out,enjoy each others company, but don't stop living your life or let your friendship stop you from enjoying other females,No matter what she decides to do you have an obligation to yourself to make sure your happy!:cool:
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    Jun 13, 2007, 09:00 AM
    Dude this exact thing is happening to me right now..

    The girl I am talking to is playing sports and all and she is really busy

    We text like all the time and she says she really loves talking to me because it makes her feel good

    What do I do

    Its summer and she wants to go to the movies this Friday
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