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    meecy12 Posts: 133, Reputation: 2
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    May 11, 2008, 06:52 PM
    Bad rumors
    there is a rumor going around that i'm a lesbian. I have nothing against that, but it's NOT TRUE! but EVERYone believes it, and now i'm scared that i'll never be able to have a boyfriend. what do i do??
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    May 11, 2008, 11:46 PM
    I wouldn't worry about it. Flirt with the boys, eventually people will otice that you flirt with boys insteadof date girls and forget all about it. They more you try to deny it the more people will believe it.
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    May 13, 2008, 08:12 AM
    Maybe you'll find a guy that doesn't care about the rumors, or you'll find a guy who wants to date a lesbian.
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    May 13, 2008, 02:49 PM
    The people that said that they are probably jealous that you get more boys then them I had a rumor about me saying I'm pregnant I went up to the girll . & believe me a lot of boys like that so don't worry about boy not wanting to date you or w.e.
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    May 13, 2008, 03:01 PM
    High school is so petty, people try to bring other people down just to make themselves feel better.. high school is hard because when gossip gets started it goes EVERYWHERE! I suggest you don't continue the gossip by freaking out and getting upset.. if you act like you could care less, and yes you can deny it, but don't freak out every time you hear someone talking about it, it will lose it's luster, people will stop talking about it because they aren't getting reactions from it, and after a little while it will be old news.. you don't have to prove anything to anyone, and just know that once you're done with high school you don't have to worry about that petty crap anymore.. I hated high school, and I'm so glad I'm out.. just go on doing what you normally do

    Don't worry about boys, if they don't want to date you because they believe a stupid rumor, then they're not worth dating anyway..

    And by the way, when you get out of high school boys are so much more mature.. you don't need these boys now anyway..
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    May 13, 2008, 03:21 PM
    Don't worry about it. There was the same rumor about my wife when she was single.

    The idiot boys who believe it might even be interested in you for the novelty. The people with a clue will see through it and date you for you.

    Honestly... deep breath in and out.

    If you are interested in a guy, show some attention. If he is worth anything, hell follow your lead.

    There's nothing sexier than a confidant woman... so screw the morons who trash others to build themselves up.

    And nothing pi$$es off your enemies more than them seeing you not give a crap, even if you do.

    So... live your life like normal.. and if you like a guy, your actions will show through.

    HS BS is so stupid. And it all means NOTHING in the long run... that's the sad part. All the drama is just BS.
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    May 13, 2008, 04:32 PM
    And heck you may have guys lined up to want to "cure you, don't worry there will be rumors of all types over time

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