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free_money · May 11, 2008, 10:16 AM

When I go to parties, I get drunk and usually end up doing things with someone (blow jobs, fingering, making out, etc. etc.). But after the party, the guys that I had done things with don't talk to me. I mean, they don't IGNORE me, but they just never approach me afterwards. What does this mean? Is there something wrong with me?

bushg · May 11, 2008, 10:27 AM

Then stop getting drunk.

bushg · May 11, 2008, 10:38 AM

Let me spell it out for you. They see you as easy, that is why they don't approach you, they know that you will allow anyone to do as they choose . Most guys do not want that or girls for that matter.
Your problem is that you behave like this when you are drunk... so stop getting drunk.
You are doing yourself harm in many ways.
1. by gaining a bad rep.
2. damaging your young developing organs with drinking.
3. taking the chances on getting a std.
4. taking a chance on being raped, gang raped etc...

Stop drinking, you can't handle it plus it is illegal and you and the people supplying it could end up in jail.

Fr_Chuck · May 11, 2008, 11:04 AM

Yes, the problem is you, guys that do this with you at a party are merely getting their pleasure at your expense but would never want to have a seroius relationship with someone they would basically view as a tramp,

At this point with having such a rep, it is going to take time to recover so that guys worth having would want to go out with you,
Well go out more than once to score and then find a nice girl to seroiusly date.

So the issue is going out and drinking, read 3/4 of the problem posts here, they all start with, "we were just out drinking and"

Xrayman · May 11, 2008, 10:03 PM

Sorry-it's reality-guys will know that if you're easy for them, you are easy for others as well-stop boozing, and take some time out by yourself and make those boys "work" for it, stop giving it away..

easyluckyhard · May 15, 2008, 08:37 PM

Well most drunk chicks I've ever seen go in a different room and do some "stuff"and then come out and start flirtin with someone else and completely leaves the other guy in the dust that's why he may be ignoring you

kitten94515 · May 16, 2008, 03:41 AM

Can you say.
SLUT?

&&& + why the would you do that stuff, you sound like my friend.
And its retarded. Like seriously.

I agreee with everyone else.

liz28 · May 19, 2008, 05:02 PM

Guys don't like easy girls that go around and bj everyone,don't you know that isn't right or maybe you should ask your parents and see what they think. People talk and soon it will get back to them so I think your question was immature your opening line answered the question that followed.

tawnynkids · May 19, 2008, 05:02 PM

As well as the above... there are a lot of guys who once they get what they want from you they have no need for you. Guys know who the "easy" girls are. They aren't stupid. So, they will take their turn with you and then be done with you. They have no need for you after because they have no respect for you and that's because you seem to have no respect for yourself.

ryanquak1 · May 20, 2008, 06:41 AM

Originally Posted by free_money

When I go to parties, I get drunk and usually end up doing things with someone (blow jobs, fingering, making out, etc. etc.). But after the party, the guys that I had done things with don't talk to me. I mean, they don't IGNORE me, but they just never approach me afterwards. What does this mean? Is there something wrong with me?

Hey, this is coming from an actual guy. There is nothing wrong with you at all. Just 90 percent of us guys are s. The 90 percent get the girls drunk do stuff with them then never talk to them. Or never want a relationship. At parties the chances are a guy NEVER wants a relationship. They just want to or do stuff. This is how girls get bad reps. It is better to either resist or not go to parties. In less you do not care about your rep. It is not you, it's the wrong head thinking for us guys. Wow I can not believe I just told you this.