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michelle8621 · Apr 21, 2008, 07:43 PM

Hello! This can be a long story but I'll cut it short.

I am a lesbian and I met a girl about a year ago at Gay Pride. Since that day we were spending all day together everyday and we loved every minute of it. In November I found a Personal AD she had placed on the Internet looking for a man. When I confronter her about it she told me that she had placed the AD before she had met me, so I let it go. Since that day though, nothing was ever the same. Just recently I saw the AD again and it was active. She had also placed a picture that I took with my phone as her main image. Once again, I confronter her and she told me that I was a stalker and that I needed to respect her privacy. That was the last time we talked and its been about 2 weeks now. She ended up sending me a text message. The text didn't say much, it was basically "hey what's up, what are you doing". I did reply a good 3 hours later or so and she never responded. The next day she send me the same text and I didn't reply at all. I don't know what to do.. I miss her a lot and I feel like I do love her. What do you guys think??

Thanks,
-Michelle

N0help4u · Apr 21, 2008, 08:01 PM

I think she is looking for who ever/whatever/whenever/where ever NO strings attached--male or female. I would tend to believe her about the ad EXCEPT for the fact that she posted a current pic so therefore NO I would not trust her!

Fr_Chuck · Apr 21, 2008, 08:02 PM

Sounds like she likes girls and guys, and that most likely she was wanting to date guys and dating you at the same time. If you don't mind sharing her with guys sometimes, I see no problem,
If this is a issue, then perhaps she is not the one for you.
Also since you are not living together merely dating, is or was there any commitment not to see others.

oneguyinohio · Apr 21, 2008, 08:05 PM

Originally Posted by michelle8621

What do you guys think??

From what you have posted, it seems that she is looking for a man. She may or may not want to continue the relationship with you, but seems to be thinking that it is none of your business if she is looking for someone else.

Doesn't seem like she wants an exclusive relationship. And at the least, there doesn't seem to be much communication between the two of you about it, so the relationship may not be what you thought or hoped that it was.

Take a good look, and think about if you really want to be treated the way you have been, or if you would be better off to look elsewhere for a better relationship.