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    sadlittleangel Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 14, 2008, 10:59 AM
    MY boyfriend wants sex and l lost interest should l give in
    My boyfriend is always wanting sex and lately l have lost interest what should l do should l just give it to him and make him happy or what?
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    Apr 14, 2008, 11:00 AM
    Boyfriend wants sex l lost interest should l give in
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    Apr 14, 2008, 11:02 AM
    Do you still want to be with your boyfriend?


    If you do, you need to find a way to become interested. Think of something that you would like to try... Sexy clothes, positions, lotions, back rubs, oral sex. Back rubs always worked for me.
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    Apr 14, 2008, 11:28 AM
    How old are you, and how long has he been your b/f, and what happened to your interests in sex?
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    Apr 14, 2008, 01:40 PM
    Little Sad One, I want to have a talk with you because your post is very poignant, and it tugged my heart strings.

    I think you are very young and just plain too young to enjoy all the urgency, messiness and lack of "refinement" in having sex with a persistent teenage boy. If a girl is not ready, as maturity level, to deal with sex, it is a very unpleasant way to pass the time.

    I know having a boyfriend is the most important thing for a high school girl... but... having sex too young will have negative consequences later on in your life when you would be ready to explore your sexuality as a more mature person. Right now, sex is going to become misery for you. That kind of association will be hard to overcome in the future. :(

    I have to say this... the best thing is to break up with your boyfriend... a sadder but wiser girl, but a girl who made the right decision... and knows this in her heart.

    Very, very best wishes in 2008.
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    Apr 15, 2008, 04:42 PM
    Being in a relationship with someone who doesn't want to have sex with you is very frustrating. Take it from someone who knows. You should look at the reasons you don't want to. Have you lost interest in him? Has your libido disappeared? If that is the case, I would speak to a doctor.

    I have begged my boyfriend to go to a doctor and try and be proactive in finding out why he has a low libido. If you love someone, why wouldn't you do everything it takes to find a way to make them happy?
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