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    depressedhelp Posts: 91, Reputation: 3
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    Mar 31, 2008, 05:21 PM
    Multiple Problems. Teen Life Become 2 Much.
    Im Not Saying Im The Only One.
    But I Being Only 14 Have A Very Pressured Life.
    Friends Yelling. Parents Starting 2 Not Trust Me.
    Mom Accusing Me Of Doing Drugs. [[Im Not.]
    Teachers Giving 2 Much Work 2 Do In So Little Time.
    Guys Driving Me Crazy. Hatred For Things I Didn't Even Do.
    Im Very Much Sick Of It.
    Last Year I Was Deeply Thinking Of Suicide.
    And Im Considered As A Good Child. Good Student. Good Person.
    I Try 2 Do All Of My Homework. Try to be Nice. And Try 2 Obey The Rules.
    Well Here's A List Of My Problems::

    1. Overweight. [[164 lbs.]
    2. Parents Don't Trust Me Any Longer.
    3. Too much Homework.
    4. Friends Becoming Pushy. [[Lets Keep This Nice.. ]
    5. Wishing I Was No Longer Here At Times.
    6. Has OK Grades [[According 2 Parents.]
    []]1 C. 3 B's. 4 A's.[[]

    Any Adivse Is Much Appreciated.
    Thanks Much.
    -me.
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    COOKIE MONSTER Posts: 589, Reputation: 56
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    Mar 31, 2008, 06:09 PM
    Did you post the other day about telling your parents about your boyfriend?

    At 14 your body is changing and you are going to put on weight its part of puberty hun its happening to everybody your age,it happened to all of us

    The trust thing with your parents maybe because they no your up to something with your boyfriend[maybe not seeing him for awhile mite help]

    The homework load does get bigger as you get older [but if it really is too much talk to your school I'm sure theirs somebody who you can talk to at school about it]

    As for your friends being pushy you need to stand your ground if you say NO then stand your ground and let them no you mean it,they are serposed to be your friend if they are being really pushy towards you then what kind of friends are they

    As for the suicidal thoughts you need to talk to your parents or your doctor about it and maybe see acouncilor [you need to get it sorted out hun]

    Well don't you think that's agood thing that your parents think you have good grades hun
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    Mar 31, 2008, 06:20 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by COOKIE MONSTER
    did you post the other day about telling your parents about your boyfriend?

    at 14 your body is changing and you are going to put on weight its part of puberty hun its happening to everybody your age,it happend to all of us

    the trust thing with your parents maybe because they no your up to something with your boyfriend[maybe not seeing him for awhile mite help]

    the homework load does get bigger as you get older [but if it really is too much talk to your school im sure theirs somebody who you can talk to at school about it]

    as for your friends being pushy you need to stand your ground if you say NO then stand your ground and let them no you mean it,they are serposed to be your friend if they are being really pushy towards you then what kind of friends are they

    as for the suicidal thoughts you need to talk to your parents or your doctor about it and maybe see acouncilor [you need to get it sorted out hun]

    well dont you think thats agood thing that your parents think you have good grades hun
    Yes I Did.
    And We broke Up.
    So that problems off the table.
    Lol.
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    Mar 31, 2008, 06:57 PM
    you are going through puberty and many mixed emotions are to be expected during this time. As said above, you are going to gain weight, just make sure to exercise and it will all come off easily I promise. Also, the homework situation you shouldn't worry about so much, you are still in middle school and none of that matters until high school, plus the work you are doing now will prepare you for high school very well and you should breeze through it. As for the suicide, if these thoughts come to you at least 3 times a week you need to seek professional help no matter what. Its OK to be depressed because everyone has but please realize that taking your life will do nobody any good(think about what your parents will feel like? ) and you are too young to be ending something as precious as your own life..

    please take the advice into consideration and I hope I helped =)
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    Mar 31, 2008, 07:03 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by o NitSuA o
    you are going through puberty and many mixed emotions are to be expected during this time. as said above, you are going to gain weight, just make sure to exercise and it will all come off easily i promise. Also, the homework situation you shouldn't worry about so much, you are still in middle school and none of that matters until high school, plus the work you are doing now will prepare you for high school very well and you should breeze through it. As for the suicide, if these thoughts come to you at least 3 times a week you need to seek professional help no matter what. its ok to be depressed because everyone has but please realize that taking your life will do nobody any good(think about what your parents will feel like??) and you are too young to be ending something as precious as your own life..

    please take the advice into consideration and i hope i helped =)
    Thank you so much. The advise has been taken in consideration and will be in the future. Thanks for you time. :]

    Thanks Much.
    -me.
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    Apr 1, 2008, 03:45 PM
    My advice so far may not help, my parents don't trust me for crap, that's why I tell them the truth, no matter what the hell it is. I'm overweight too, I stopped eating because of that(I lost 36lbs.) but I found out that when you don't eat it eats your muscle, then when it's completely gone, eats your fat. After that I started eating again and exercising more, just don't kill yourself either, not healthy
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    Dec 29, 2012, 11:08 AM
    I have the same problem sweety! Just keep your head held high and your hope's down low! Everything will be wonderful in the end!

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