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    Candy Apple 20 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 31, 2008, 02:42 PM
    What does a man mean when he tells you you're not on his level?
    :mad:
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    Mar 31, 2008, 03:13 PM
    It means that he is still stuck in his high school state of mind. In high school it is common for most people to think more or less rank everyone based on looks, money, or popularity. It is why high school is so clique oriented.

    Usually when people get out of high school they realize that isn't how life works. That relationships are based on compatibility and not popularity. When someone tells you, you aren't on his level it means that he is stuck in a childish state of mind that he thinks you are somehow inferior to him socially and he is somehow better than you.
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    Mar 31, 2008, 03:21 PM
    It could also mean you might not be on his level of thinking for the relationship aspect. Although what DBA says holds some truth it isn't every thing. I do agree with the above comment but it could also mean he could think he is more mature not so popular or "cooler" just that you might be too much for what he is looking for..
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    Mar 31, 2008, 05:55 PM
    It really depends on the context.

    He could have also meant you're "out of his league" and he would not fit into your socio-economic circle if you two were to date.

    -OR-

    You're not as an accomplished skier/reader/hot dog eater as he is.

    Probably best to have him clarify what he meant before you go jumping to conclusions.
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    Mar 31, 2008, 06:00 PM
    In My Opinion.

    "Im 2 Gud 4 You"

    Well anyone who thinks like that is vein. He's the kind of guy to avoid no doubt. He's not good enough for you. Not the other way around. I'd just get over that guy because he is much to full of himself. Find someone who is caring. Loving. And sensible. Or be single for some time. Clear your ind. Focus on school. Then maybe after all this that guy will want you. But by then you'll be laughing in his face :D
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    Mar 31, 2008, 07:32 PM
    He thinks you are immature... and his way of saying it was frankly, immature.
    So, in the end - you are on the same level...

    (time to move on)
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    #7

    Mar 31, 2008, 09:59 PM
    It means he is better than you.
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    Oct 14, 2008, 12:17 PM

    I agree with what has been said and I also think that unless he valued u for who you are then he is not really worth the fuss.

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