Well, regardless of how people feel about it morally, studies have shown that children raised by gay parents really don't turn out any different than children raised in straight homes. They seem to be just as well-adjusted, and in some ways more so because they tend to be more tolerant of different lifestyles. They have less prejudice against "different" people than their counterparts raised in a straight home. Also, they are usually straight themselves. Being raised by gay parents doesn't seem to "make you gay", as some people worry about. And 97% of the people who sexually abuse children are straight men, so the sexual abuse issue doesn't factor much into it either.
Is it an ideal situation though? I'm not sure. Lots of people think that it's best if a child has 2 parents, one of either sex, but there are so many single parent families out there, that lots of kids aren't getting that anyway. And of the 2 gay parent families that I know, the kids have extended family members (uncles, aunts, family friends, etc) to help take the place of the opposite sex parent.
From the opinion of someone who was raised in foster care and never adopted, I think I would have been glad just to HAVE parents, and it wouldn't have mattered to me if they were gay or straight.
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