You have a two options. . You can "feed in" to him. By doing this you can join him in his antics, thus he will expose himself and others will lean towards you and defend you. You will notice your friends wanting to be in your presents and they will "sub Consciously weed him out" of the group. This will not be a sudden change, do not look of it! It will just happen. If you do not see a change, the people you call your friends... well are they? The other option... you do not want to do. I feel the best advice "just walk away from this pompous a$$" Laugh with him, agree with him. Give him nothing to use against you. If he does, go with the flow. Example: he says "look at your shoes, how stupid" you say "Wow you are right they are stupid, thank you for telling me, by the way do you see anything elts that you would like to comment on?" let him say it, agree if he does, do not make any changes if he suggests you do. He is expecting you to fight back. When you don't he will be dumbfounded and will try his hardest to gain back the "Bad a$$" title he is trying to accomplish. When he gives up, he will move on to another person. He is insecure with himself-his probublem not yours.
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