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    tantoun Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 15, 2008, 04:38 AM
    Do I still have the chance of getting my ex back?
    I am dating a guy from 2 month and half we talk over the phone more than 10 yimes daily, and we meet every 2 or three days. We get very close to each other and we started to love each other. He broke up with me once I didn't call him I agreed with him and after 3 days he called me and he watend me back, and after he also wanted to break up but in the same day we got back together.
    And finally we broke up from one week and we agreed to stay friends, because he said that he has feelings to me but not strong as mine cz I am in love with him, we start talking and we were planning to do activities together and to party, and in the same time he is trying to make me feel jealous, we went to a party in the weekend, and when I was with him we started talking together he told me that he is confused he doesn't know what to do and he is afraid of losing me, he said that he is afraid that he will regret his decision later and he is afraid if he will come when it is too late, and he said that he feels that he will regret it but now he doesn't feel like staying GF and BF, he asked me to tell him what to do and that he want me to stay in his life even if we are friends and to wait him to take hi decision. I told him that I gave him 2 chances and I am not ready to give him one more and I said that this is the last night I am going to spend it with him and from the next day I will live my life and I will work on myself to move on. But I love him and I missed him but I don't want to ask him back I want him to feel that he wants me I don't want me to make him feel this way. Please help me, what should I do?
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    Mar 15, 2008, 05:15 AM
    You should forget about this guy. He obviously does not want you as his girlfriend and you are just infatuated with him. Cut your losses and move on.
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    Mar 15, 2008, 05:28 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by tantoun
    i told him that i gave him 2 chances and i am not ready to give him one more and i said that this is the last night i am gonna spend it with him and from the next day i will live my life and i will work on myself to move on.
    You go Girl. He sounds to me like he is playing games with you. Bouncing back and forth and trying to do things to make you jelous. Sounds like one of those times where he don't want you but he don't want anyone else to have you. Tell him to get lost. If he cared for you or your feelings he wouldn't toy with you like he does.
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    talaniman Posts: 54,327, Reputation: 10855
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    Mar 15, 2008, 01:41 PM
    I think you have already done the right thing by letting go of this confused person, and now just move on and don't contact him. He had 2 chances and still blew it. Give a real guy a shot. He ain't it!

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