Originally Posted by
catsareniice1
My husband left our marriage abruptly a few months ago. I have circumstanstial evidence that he is cheating on me. I was told that infidelity in my state (Rhode Island) can only be proven if you catch the two parties "in the act" or by finding vehicles of the parties overnight together.
I have my husband's cell phone records showing that he is communicating with this his mistress on a very regular basis as well as a great deal of text messaging. If I have this along with a couple of photos of their cars parked together at a house in the daytime, can this prove infidelity? She is not on our phone records PRIOR to him leaving me. Also, does anyone know my chances of receiving alimony? He left me with a brand new business that, although it is doing well, is not profitable yet. We do not have children.
You do not have to prove anything to file for a divorce, often the reason has little value as to receiving money, the fact he moved out and deserted you will have more of a bearing normally. Also in precourt filings your attorney will send an entire list of questions to your husband and perhaps to this lady also asking them all sorts of things.
He will be asked to list anyone he had sexual relationship with BEFORE he left you, it is surprising how many people tell the truth since they don't want to be found guilty of lying under oath at court
I would stop worrying about what he is doing, he is gone and figure how to get on with my life and getting a good attorney to file for divorce with.