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    TrueFaith Posts: 1,202, Reputation: 313
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    Feb 24, 2008, 12:59 AM
    What to do? Boss loves you boss hates you girl?
    Hey guys

    So I'm going out with a chick I work with I know I know not the best :)
    But hey. Anyway I really like this one she seems to give me what I need.
    Now if the boss likes you but not her. What do you do? Not much right

    If she gets kicked do I go with her or stay at my job?


    This all depends on how much I love her I know or what's best for me

    What's best for me is for me to stay in this job

    Anyway what would you guys do?
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    Feb 24, 2008, 01:14 AM
    I'm sorry, you're kidding right?! For one thing, you call her "a chick you work with"! That doesn't sound like you have much respect for her. Second, you said it depends on how much you "love her"?? I think it might be a case of lust and just the thrill and the challenge of not getting caught fooling around with someone your boss doesn't like. Keep your job buddy!
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    Feb 24, 2008, 01:16 AM
    I agree with starbuck!! Are you going to make more money in her pants or at your job?
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    Feb 24, 2008, 02:54 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by TrueFaith
    Hey guys

    so im going out with a chick i work with i know i know not the best :)
    but hey. anyway i really like this one she seems to give me what i need.
    now if the boss likes you but not her. what do you do? not much right

    If she gets kicked do i go with her or stay at my job?


    this all depends on how much i love her i know or whats best for me

    whats best for me is for me to stay in this job

    anyway what would you guys do?
    Welcome to Realtionships 101 Class True :)

    1) Noooooo, don't refer to women as "Chicks" - it's too close to Easter (and that term really isn't "cool" and doesn't reflect that you really care for her, you may very well, but that term just isn't one to use for your girlfriend)

    2) "She seems to give me what I need" -

    In a relationship, it should be what is mutually given and received. It's not what the other can do for you.

    3) Be her friend, and pull her aside and try and help her not get "kicked". You seem to know how to get on the bosses good side, have a chat with your girlfriend and try and get her to be more productive at work and at less risk for losing her job.

    4) Of course you don't leave a job because someone you like has been fired. Keep your head about you and keep work at work and personal life off hours.

    Class dismissed ;)
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    Feb 24, 2008, 10:01 AM
    She might be fun, but you quickly will find, love don't pay the rent. There ain't that much love in the world, worth quitting a job over.
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    Feb 24, 2008, 10:06 AM
    I agree talan very true point


    Thank you all for your advice

    Regards
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    Feb 24, 2008, 10:08 AM
    I'd keep right on going out with her and let her deal with whatever problems she's having with the boss.
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    Feb 25, 2008, 03:53 PM
    I agree my job does take me all ove the world though. So I hope we can both be strong enough to make this work

    Although I really have my doubts about L.D relationships :)


    Grr

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