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    music_freak10 Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 7, 2008, 09:30 PM
    How do I get back my ex-boyfriend when I messed up?
    I made some mistakes in our relationship some major ones and now that we have broken up I just want him back and actually have relaized what I have done. I would get mad at him for everything and even to the extreme of hitting him.
    Right now I work full-time and go to school full-time so I'm stressed all the time and its hard for me but I know what I need and I going to start gooing to a pschologist next week.
    We would have fights but we would just get back together and now it didn't happen like that. He will talk to me on the phone but he won't talk to me in person.
    I have been sick lately and he has asked me if I need anything and he did bring me some meds but he just left after that and he wouldn't even talk to me. And he still asks if I need anything.
    We have been together for 8 months and we do truly love each other but I don't know what to do- SHould I just move on and go on with life or try to get him back.
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    Feb 7, 2008, 10:06 PM
    When your schedule is less hectic and you have some psychotherapy done, things might be different. Yes, it sounds like he loves you. He is probably keeping his distance so that history will not repeat itself. You need to learn more about yourself whether the two of you get back together or not.
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    Feb 8, 2008, 12:37 AM
    If you hit him, you can never undo that.
    If he is weak, he will take you back.
    But, really, this should be a lesson for you in the future.
    You have to be happy in order to make the other person happy.
    Become better. Learn from this.
    Other than that, unless he's weak, you've lost him.
    Move on. You don't really have a choice.
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    talaniman Posts: 54,327, Reputation: 10855
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    Feb 8, 2008, 07:46 AM
    Forget relationships, as you have some very serious issues, you need to get help for, and hitting is the first one. You should make that your priority, and focus, and if he is willing to help, and support you then you should be grateful to have him in your life. I can't speak for him, as I understand he is keeping his distance to protect himself, nor can I say this relationship will survive, but I can say, work on you, and take it small step at a time. You must be healthy, to have a healthy, caring relationship. Good luck.
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    Feb 8, 2008, 08:32 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman
    Forget relationships, as you have some very serious issues, you need to get help for, and hitting is the first one. You should make that your priority, and focus, and if he is willing to help, and support you then you should be grateful to have him in your life. I can't speak for him, as I understand he is keeping his distance to protect himself, nor can I say this relationship will survive, but I can say, work on you, and take it small step at a time. You must be healthy, to have a healthy, caring relationship. Good luck.
    A1 advice.
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    Feb 8, 2008, 08:48 AM
    Love is not only about having relationship but u should care about him/her.U should provide best service to him/her.True love is not just boyfriend and girlfriend games but it is"Perfection given to 2 person by the god when they are int his world".So u should think in a deep and nice way.

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