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Roast · Feb 2, 2008, 07:29 PM

Hey, I am 12 and Just started High school, and I am having a feeling for one of my Best friends. She is 7 Days younger than me and we went to the same primary school, and I had a crush on her from 5-6, then I got over her, now I love her again and I'm confused. Because she's such a good friend and if I make a move it might jeprodise our frienship, I must mention she is going out with a another boy too. Any Advice of what to do, because I really love her but I'm just so confused...

kitten94515 · Feb 3, 2008, 07:27 AM

Tell her about it.
If she likes you back then she'll break up with her boyfriend.
Or better yet, wait until their broken up...
Drama.

drali77 · Feb 3, 2008, 01:48 PM

Tell her

Goodmorningworld17 · Feb 3, 2008, 04:49 PM

Being young, I'm going to assume she gossips like it's a bodily function. In which case, telling her will be disastrous and she'll tell her friends and one of her friends will tell the boyfriend because the friends likes him too.

I think you need to hang out with her WITH your other friends, preferably without her boyfriend. For instance, invite her friends to come to the movies with your friends and make sure that your interest comes along. Don't be forward. But just be who you are and if she likes you enough, she will realize that you're better for her.

PS: but 7 days younger?? Maybe you should deal with someone your own age my friend. What if you grew up together? You would be 40 and she would be 7 days younger, it would be absurd.
*jokes... *

templelane · Feb 3, 2008, 04:56 PM

If you really like her don't do anything! You'll probably only last a week at your age and then you'll ruin your friendship wait until you are 14/15 and you'll stand a better chance of having a meaningful/lasting relationship.

I'm not being patronising I promise I just know how things go at that age, especially with high school being all new and friendships change so fast.

Failing that do what Goodmorning said. And don't breakup relationships it's really not cool- how would you like it if someone did that to you?

You have loads of time- she's not going any where.

Well that's my tuppence good luck.

drali77 · Feb 4, 2008, 02:34 AM

Tell her and then give her some time to think and decide
Fear of rejection and losing someone is high
But we say lion is afraid of a man as man is afraid of a lion
You are young and learning
And I think she has a soft corner for you in her heart
I know other member's advice will confuse you
But you are a man and you have to take a decision
Who is the man your are the man
Who is the man you are the man
Go get her

kitten94515 · Feb 4, 2008, 06:18 AM

Go get her!
:D
And friendships/relationships will always change.
Whether u want them to or not.
Take a chance buddy, the worst thing that can happen is rejection.
If she says no. that's her fault.
You'll find a good one.
Good luck. (:

drali77 · Feb 4, 2008, 12:10 PM

Confucius said journey of a thousand miles start from a single step

I don't know why people are so much scared and hope for the worst out come
Keep you intentions good
You never ask you never get

Go go gadget... :)

lynn12 · Dec 16, 2011, 03:54 PM

What ever you do, don't try to make her and her boyfriend break up. Not only would this break her heart (if she really liked the guy) but it would ruin your friendship. So this is what you should do, take this from me (I have been through situations like this I'm a 13 year old girl.), text her and say I like you. Then when you see her act like nothig happened when she brings up the topic just be like "sooooo do you like.....me?" and see what she says. Good Luck :)!!