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TwoPathsOneChance · Dec 31, 2007, 07:35 PM

Welcome to my beautiful mess, Im going to get right to the point, I am 100% positivily truly madly in love with my boyfriend [{my age is not a nessesary item}] and our love is forbidion... A: Because of the age diffrence and B: because of my mothers disapoval... We ~My boyfriend and I~ Have to opportunity to run away and be together until Im of age, Somwere we will be safe and can start a life together, Somwere far away from here... He wishes me to go with him though if I decide not to he will remain behind and wait until I am of age... I love him and want to go and be with him forever... I have one month to decide my future, Im wondering if I should ditch were I am, who I'm living with and go live with my baby and his family somwere other then here (No we will not be caught it tis flawless) What do you think..

Fr_Chuck · Dec 31, 2007, 07:51 PM

If you are underage, you will be tracked down by the police and authorities, and your love of your life will be arrested and be in jail.

If you are truly and madly in love, it will wait till the age does not really matter.

TwoPathsOneChance · Dec 31, 2007, 07:55 PM

Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

If you are underage, you will be tracked down by the police and authorities, and your love of your life will be arrested and be in jail.

If you are truly and madly in love, it will wait till the age does not really matter.

There is no way and my mother would not get them invovled nor would my prick of a father..

George_1950 · Jan 1, 2008, 11:16 AM

I do not think you should marry, if that is what you are asking, until after you have established your independence, your autonomy, your ability to provide for yourself. Age is a big issue, both chronologically and emotionally.

I am more concerned with your home life and why things have gotten so bad that you are ready to leave.

Wondergirl · Jan 1, 2008, 11:27 AM

I agree that you should not run away and/or marry. Your writing tells me that you need to stay in school, and, similar to what George said, at least finish high school to get that diploma that doesn't mean much now but will later, and to mature. I married at 21 and had a college degree and still hadn't figured out who I was, so I can't believe you know who you are yet.

talaniman · Jan 1, 2008, 11:28 AM

If you decision is based on getting away from home, I suggest you at least consider being on your own, and trying to be the best you can, outside this relationship. Believe it or not, there is plenty of time to be with the one you love, but laying the groundwork now is as important as being in love. Trust me, the more you prepare yourself for a better chance at life, the happier it will be.

cerisa · Jan 1, 2008, 06:40 PM

That is a bad way to start a life with the one you love. How many years until you are of age? Use them wisely, get an education, be able to make a good living. That is the best way to have a good life for the rest of your life.

N0help4u · Jan 1, 2008, 06:47 PM

Your boyfriend could be arrested for harboring a minor not to mention crossing state lines.
I think you get so many years for each state you cross. Then he would be on the Megan's law website forever.
It has to be harder nowadays because you could be sitting in a restaurant while everybody is looking at American's Most Wanted on the TV and comparing you and him to you and him on there.
When the police return you your parents will make your life even worse.